why is it that women are particularly unsafe in India and even elsewhere ??? is it only because Men are stronger than women ? but by that logic a lot of men could be unsafe too considering a large number of men having homosexual tendencies and certain physically stronger men could overpower and rape them. This does not happen often except odd incidents in hostels and prisons if one was to generalize.
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Women are a symbol of family's pride in some manner, which is why all the high voltage abuses a are also hurled at your enemy's women, mostly related to your enemy, generally abuses accuse your enemy of having incestuous relationships with the female members in his family.
its quite clear that eve-teasing/ molestation/ sexual exploitation is not fully an act of sexual fulfillment as it is also an act of showing the weaker sex their space in the society, as a rape can hardly be pleasurable
The reasons why women are getting raped & molested in India lies within ourselves I feel and just like a lot of people I feel that its impossible to stop it completely but these incidents can be minimized to a great extent but that shall happen over a generation it would tale immediate efforts from the executive but more important and long term efforts from us
- Kids are an extension of what they see in their family, probably not in entirety but your character builds up with what you are taught at home. What you see your dad doing is what you usually perceive to be right and cool, even if that involves aggression If you are rightly taught with examples that your sister or you mother is as important as any male member in the family, its unlikely that you would degrade women in any manner. Easier said than done as we are all very hypocrite when it comes to women and their rights especially in the important decisions like finances, major purchases etc.
Men who are not brought up properly are the ones who are most likely to objectify women and get threatened by women who are independent and successful.
- While bringing up our kids we have to teach them to trust us and to communicate and express themselves to us completely. Sometimes kids are dominated and bullied in school for years and neighborhood or teased in public transport, such kids grow up to be less confident when the kid is out in the real world. When the statistic says that more than 70% of rapes are committed by persons known to the victim, its not a result of a day its a culmination of series of incidents that your daughter or your sister would not have been able to talk to you about which results in the act of rape.
- Bullying needs to be finished from the very young age, it harms the perpetrator and the victim as the perpetrator starts enjoying the act and the victim becomes too scared to talk. The schools and parents should come together to watch this bullying.
Most importantly we all need to have a spine to stand up to all forms of molestation and eve teasing in public. This is the toughest thing to do. I feel the criminals would be shit scared if they know that the public would beat them hollow in case they misbehave. Lets pleadge for once that we would all have the spine to stand up to any such incident if we witness it.
If anyone has any doubts about this, try and misbehave with anyone in central Delhi right now, with the way moods are you could be beaten to death. There is no greater force in this country than the society
The policing needs to be better in terms of patrolling and compassion and there is a lot to be desired, but the government should release their pictures of all the accused in rape cases in the media so that even when they get out of the jail due to some reason, their names are permanently tarnished, and everyone is scared of this especially if the perpetrator comes from a sound background, therefore all the potential rapists shall be extra-careful in their misadventures.
I am not in favor a stronger law on rape as like every other law its likely to be highly misused, but what could be done is that in cases of Gangrape or rape of a child or something, police should be allowed to finish off the criminal, its not worth its while for the courts to
This evil which is scaring the shit out of each one of us can be and will be countered. And in case we really want to do something constructive in this side after protests are over, we should try and see in case can help NGO's looking after rape victimes by cash or by kind and do our bit for our country and for our souls.
JAI Hind and We will win
